about EFT

What is Emotionally Focused Therapy?

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) is a structured approach to couples therapy formulated in the 1980’s. It has its foundation in attachment theory which emphasizes the human need to be seen, understood and celebrated by those special people in our lives. 

In the last fifteen years, Dr. Sue Johnson and her colleagues have further developed and refined the model and completed numerous studies. EFT is also used with families and individuals. A substantial body of research outlining the effectiveness of EFT now exists.

Why I practice EFT

EFT is my foundational therapy model with individuals and couples. EFT provides a framework to understand how humans are hardwired for connection to those special people in our lives from birth to the end of life. It makes sense that when we are feeling rejected or disconnected from those precious people that it is painful and scary. From the early days of my therapy work, I learned how moving it can be to facilitate conversations about attachment. It is beautiful and very rewarding work!

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Bothell Location

10516 East Riverside Drive
Bothell, WA 98011

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Phone

425-210-0381

Email

knielsencounseling@gmail.com

NEWS

Northwest Couples:

Northwest Couples is led by co-creators Kristin Nielsen MS, LMFT, CST and Marcia Erickson Bates MS, LMFT providing Hold Me Tight® couples workshops in the Greater Seattle area. We help couples transform their relationships by unpacking patterns that create disconnection, and providing a road map to a secure and lasting bond. 

Let’s connect! Visit our website to find resources to educate, support and cultivate your relationship.

Upcoming Couples Workshops:

  • March 2 - 3, 2024

  • October 5 - 6, 2024